Life Lessons Learned on a Limping Leg (Yeah, I know...I just wanted an alliteration :) )

So most of y’all know that on November 1^st of last year one of the GNOMer’s was playing basketball and screwed up his knee big time……well you also probably know I was that GNOMer. The point of this isn’t to brag about my injury skills….I’ll save that for another time J I’ll also spare you all the gory details of my injury.

Let’s fastforward about two months, from the ER on November 1^st to mid January. In that time I had my knee rebuilt, did therapy, got off crutches, and left North Carolina with the team and traveled down to Florida.

Ok, finally the main point. I don’t remember the date but one evening the team was at a family’s house for dinner. To kill time while we waited for dinner we started throwing a Frisbee around. Now if you know me you know that I love Frisbee. And I don’t just love Frisbee….I LOVE Frisbee J Well by this time I was able to walk again so I was attempting to toss the Frisbee too. I finally got frustrated and gave up. To be honest, it was embarrassing. If a pass didn’t come right to me I couldn’t catch it. I couldn’t move fast or do anything other than stand there. I was sitting there on the sidelines feeling bad for myself and being frustrated over the fact that I had screwed my knee up so bad and worrying that it would never be the same again. It was then that the Lord got ahold of me and began pointing some things out.

Lesson 1: Trust God Even In the Midst of Trials.

You see the Lord had a plan through all of this. There was a reason He wanted me “Out of commission” in a sense. I wasn’t able to do outreach with the team and even got some flak from people for that. But what matters is that I know God, and I know that He promised to work something good for this. I know that God wants the best for me, and even though being on crutches for two months was a huge trial and I couldn’t see what the purpose was I knew that God knew, and I just needed to trust that. I’m still not sure what the main purpose of that trial was. Yeah I learned stuff, but I know the Lord has a bigger plan than I can ever know. One of the amazing things about having a relationship with God is that, as one of His children, you know that He is in control and watching out for you. Another thing I needed to trust God in was that He would bring me through this trial. Everytime I looked at my leg I had a hard time believing I’d ever be able to do anything other than walk. This is the exciting part! I broke my leg in North Carolina and was more than likely going to have to travel home for surgery and recovery….meaning I would be away from the team for about two months. I prayed about it and the Lord made it possible to have surgery in NC…..and also with one of the top orthopedists in the nation! I had an amazing doctor and also got to have it done at an absolutely amazing hospital with amazing service. The best part is that I was able to be with the team the whole time! I had to miss most of the outreach but I was still able to go to classes and even speak a couple times. Therapy started 3 weeks after surgery and my therapist said to wait 9-12 months before playing sports again, two weeks later I saw my doctor for a follow-up visit. He walked into the room and saw my knee and said “Wow”…..I liked the way that sounded J The doctor said I am having one of the best recoveries he has ever seen and that I could be back to normal in 3 months! The other day I was able to start running for short distances. The Lord is soooo good! I went from having what my doc called a “Major knee injury” to having one of the best recoveries and being able to run already! I can’t play sports but I get excited every time I run J See I would never have chosen to break my leg, but God knew that me breaking my leg would bring me to a point where I learned to trust Him especially in trials. So whatever trial you are going through now look at what way you can trust God and try to give it all up to Him. He wants you to trust Him with your trials and also with the outcomes. We may not always get the outcome that WE want, but if we get Gods outcome then we can trust that His plan is best! We can find peace even in the worst trials by just giving it up to the One in control.

Lesson 2: When you ask God to do something be ready for it to happen.

For a week or so before the injury I had been praying for one thing specifically, and that was this, “Lord, help me to be humble”……..He decided to take me up on that. If you have ever been on crutches you know that it is very humbling. I remember one time I made myself a sandwich in the kitchen and then had to ask someone to carry it to the table for me. I couldn’t even get myself a glass of water. Now I’m definitely not going to win any awards for humility, HA! Not by any means J My point is this, when you ask god for something expect to get it. I don’t regret praying for humility, not at all, but while I praying “Lord humble me” I also prayed “Lord deal gently and graciously with me.” Make sure you don’t ask rash things of God. Consider carefully what you ask of the Lord because you just might get it. Just be ready for when it comes.

Lesson 3: Thank God For Great Friends.

Throughout my recovery I was again and again struck by the amazingness of those around me. For most of my recovery I was not at home, meaning instead of having a mom and sister to care for me I had 6 guys and Mr. and Mrs. Shelley (aka Papa Mark and Mama Kim). I couldn’t have asked for more amazing people. God knew who I needed in my life at that time and he blessed my socks off by putting them there for me. They were all so willing to help me and put up with my lack of ability to do…well…anything. Take a minute to thank God for those good friends God has put in your life.

Ok, some not so serious things I learned:

Always…..ALWAYS.......make good solid landings when grabbing the basketball rim. *Snap* is not what you want to here when you land.

Avoid Annie Penn Memorial Hospital…..at least the ER.

Make sure the footers on your crutches don’t get worn through…..bad things will happen.

Crutches make you have amazingly tough armpits J

Slippery floors and crutches are no bueno.

You can get a lot of favors if you are unable to walk….just be careful not to take advantage.

NEVER overuse the phrase “I can’t do it because I am a cripple”

And Finally, Dr. Aplington and Wesley Long Memorial Hospital rocked my world!

The Dangers Of The Sinners Prayer

What I am referring to as the “sinners prayer” is the "repeat after me" method given at the end of a gospel presentation which is supposed to lead someone to accept Christ. I have no issue with a repentant sinner calling out to God for forgiveness.

I have two problems with the “sinners prayer.”

My first problem is that it is not found in scripture. Christians should be leery of using anything that's not found in the Bible, especially when it's dealing with the gospel. People are saved through faith in Christ. Some may say the sinners prayer when they put their confidence in the Savior, but it is in spite of the sinners prayer, not because of it.

Reason number two: It has led many into false professions of salvation. Many people, myself included, have been led in a prayer which resulted in a false profession. I believe that the number one cause of false professions today is the sinners prayer. Part of the problem is that it gives people an action to perform. They can easily end up trusting in something they did, instead of what Christ did for them. They look back to the prayer instead of looking to the cross for assurance. In calling people to perform an action we are jeopardizing one of the main points of the gospel, which is that there is nothing that we can do to be saved. We don't think we are giving an action to perform, but repeating a prayer can mislead them into thinking they had a part in saving their souls. 

 

Leading someone in a prayer often ends up with the person only mentally acknowledging their sinful state and mentally assenting to a formula. While it's good to acknowledge those things, that won't save you, it's believing in your heart, not in your head. It's like leading someone half way down a trail to your house in the woods, then declaring that they have arrived, when they are obviously lost.

In all of the salvation accounts found in scripture none of them involve saying a prayer, saving faith is what is shown again and again. John 3:15-16 make it clear that it is belief in the Son and nothing else.
In Acts 10:44 it says "While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit fell upon all those who heard the word." Peter was preaching and all who were listening that believed what he said were saved. They didn't say a prayer. They just recognized that they were sinners and that Jesus had died for their sin and risen again, and if they didn't believe on Him they would be under judgment.

Real Christian have a desire to see people saved. Unfortunately many try to rush the work of the Holy Spirit by leading unbelievers in a prayer. This can interfere with the work of the Holy Spirit. If we interfere with that work and it ends up leading someone into a false profession then we have a lot to account for, and personally, I don't want to run that risk. All we need to do is give people the gospel and the Holy Spirit will do the rest. Rushing someone into a prayer could be a lack of faith that the Holy Spirit will do His part. Our job is not to open hearts, our job is to shut mouths, and let the Holy Spirit open the heart.

In all of the salvation accounts in scripture no one was ever led in a prayer, not even once. Seriously, go look it up. I would suggest that leading someone in a prayer could be considered adding to the gospel, which is very dangerous. If you only based your evangelistic method on the bible you would not come to the conclusion that saying a prayer is the way to receive salvation. Rather you would see repentance and faith (Acts 20:21).

The Ethiopian Eunuch

 Then Philip opened his mouth, and began at the same scripture, and preached unto him Jesus. And as they went on their way, they came unto a certain water: and the eunuch said, See, here is water; what doth hinder me to be baptized? And Philip said, If thou believest with all thine heart, thou mayest. And he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God (Acts 8:35-37).

The Philippian Jailer

And the keeper of the prison awaking out of his sleep, and seeing the prison doors open, he drew out his sword, and would have killed himself, supposing that the prisoners had been fled. But Paul cried with a loud voice, saying, Do thyself no harm: for we are all here. Then he called for a light, and sprang in, and came trembling, and fell down before Paul and Silas, And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house. And they spake unto him the word of the Lord, and to all that were in his house (Acts 16:27-32).

Often people say that they will lead someone in a prayer if they feel that they have arrived at a point where they are ready to accept Christ. In both situations above, the evangelists (in this case Paul, Silas, and Philip) were presented with opportunities that many modern day evangelists would use to lead someone in a sinners prayer. The Philippian jailer was ready to be saved, but Paul did not lead him in a prayer, instead he tells him to “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ”. From what we see in scripture this is what we should be telling people, not “Would you like to ask Jesus into your heart? Okay, say this prayer with me..."

Children and the sinners prayer

Children are extremely susceptible to false professions due to the sinners prayer. The gospel needs to be presented in simpler terms with children, but it does not need to be dumbed down to “Ask Jesus into your heart” or “Talk to God about your sin." Talking to God about your sin is not what saves people, neither is asking Jesus into your heart (whatever that means). What child wouldn’t "ask Jesus into their heart" when they’re told that God will come live inside of them and they will go to heaven? Far too often the child has no grasp of what they are doing or why they are doing it. It is often a mental “salvation” instead of an honest realization that they are sinners and that only Jesus, and what He did for them on the cross, can save them. I was led in a prayer when I was a child and had absolutely no idea what I was doing. It's far too easy to manipulate a child into saying a prayer and professing salvation.

A new breed of the sinners prayer

Recently I’ve seen a new trend in the way people are led in the prayer, it goes something like “Saying this prayer is not what saves you, praying is simply how you tell God what you are doing”. This disclaimer doesn’t dismiss the fact that the people still did something that they are liable to trust in, instead of only trusting in the all sufficient work of Christ on the cross. The logic behind using this disclaimer doesn’t even make sense. Why do we need to tell God what we are doing? He already knows. If you offer me a gift would it be normal for me to give you a commentary on what I am doing? For example, as I take the gift from your hand it wouldn’t make sense for me to say “I am taking the gift from you”, you would already know what I was doing. Even with this disclaimer the prayer falls short of being a solid part of the gospel.

You said the prayer, are you saved?

The purpose of this paper is not to cast doubt on anyone's salvation, but instead to (unless you're not saved), it is to show the dangers of the sinners prayer. Being saved has nothing to do with a prayer. If you said a prayer you could very well be saved, but don’t base your salvation on your prayer. I know a lot of people who I believe they are saved, and they repeated a prayer after someone. God sees your heart, and if your heart was truly repentant and believing then you are saved. Psalm 51 well describes the condition that a heart should be in, in order to be saved.

Examine it for yourself

I would encourage all of you to examine this matter for yourself, especially if you are involved in any type of gospel or childrens work.  Don’t just take my word for it, seek out the matter with an open heart and God will show you what is right. Keep this question in mind: should we use an extra-biblical, or possibly an anti-biblical, practice in our gospel outreach? Study it out…someones eternity just might depend on it.

What "Five and two" means

"There is a boy here who has FIVE barley loaves and TWO fish, but what are they for so many?" John 6:9

In John 6 we read the story of Jesus feeding the five thousand. Often we read through the story but don't pay much attention to where the food came from. The boy committed what little he had to the Lords use. To any normal person five loaves and two small fish seem like nothing in a crowd that size. Yet the Lord used them to perform one of the most well known miracles. His small offering was used to feed five thousand men PLUS all of the women and children.

As Christians we need to take whatever we have to offer and commit it to the Lords use. We are to hold nothing back from the Lord. Just as the boy in John 6, if we give him what we have to offer, whether it be time, money, our homes, our lives, whatever it is, if we give it to Him He will use it in ways we could never imagine.

I am going to follow this example. I am offering everything to my Lord. After all, He deserves nothing less.  He gave His all for me. So in return I will give my life to Him.

Will you follow this example? Will you entrust the Lord with all you have to offer and rely on Him to do great things with it? After all, anything we have is only a result of the Lord being good to us. We should take all that the Lord has given us and place it under His control. He will take care of the rest.